My Personal Business Dimension

Money © Erik Back 2012

My blog on Intelligentsia.eu has been on vacation for a while. I simply didn’t know what direction to take in my writing. I have tried to start a new blog called Good Sense of Living that mainly focuses on food and recipes.

But yesterday I sat down thinking and asked myself:

  • Who am I?
  • What am I good at?
  • What defines me?

I have a lot of interests and that fact confuses me and that confusion is reflected in the great variety of topics in my posts. But all my interest and activities had to have something in common and yesterday I realised the obvious.

No matter what topic I stumble upon that catch my interest I always get ideas on how to exploit the opportunities of that topic. I always try to develop the ideas and see them as business opportunities. That is what I am good at and that is what most of my activities has in common.

Why is that obvious? – Because I am a skilled business economist in strategy and management. I have a MSc in business economics from Aarhus School of Business.

Like many others I have been on a long journey to discover myself and to find my purpose in life. I’m not there yet, but I think I finally found my passion and that is what I’m going to focus on for a while on this blog.

I will expand the blog with a new personal business dimension. I come from Denmark and I run a clinic for reflexology. I’m very good at giving treatments but I have realised that giving treatments does not drive me; I’m driven by the ideas that can develop my business.

I have started a blog in Danish about how to start a clinic and be successful. I will translate the key points of my posts and bring them on this blog.

What do you think? – Please comment my post and tell about your own experience.

Great Tips to Declutter


It’s time for some great tips on how to declutter. I have found a couple of videos on YouTube that you can use for inspiration.

Oprah’s organising guru shares his tips to declutter

Peter Walsh is an organising guru and in this video he gives some great ideas to declutter your kitchen drawer, your closet and you writing table.

What I like most about this video is the way Peter Walsh suggests that we focus. We tend to focus on the things that clutter an area or space, but instead we should focus on the function of this space.

I’m going to try out his tips on one of my drawers where I keep … well, I don’t really know what’s in there but I intend to find out.

Desk Declutter

If you have a bunch of cluttered wires then here is some good advice from Derek Johnson.

21 New Year’s Resolutions for Good Habits in 2012

Happy New Year World (2010) © by Lel4nd

1. Go to bed between 10pm and 11pm

2. Wake up at 6.30am every day

3. Exercise at least 3 times every week

4. Join a sports club

5. Eat breakfast every morning

6. Have plenty of vegetables at lunch

7. Eat less meat

8. Drink more water

9. Clean up cluttered areas

10. Throw away things you do not need

11. Make a budget for all next year

12. Start putting money aside for something you always wanted to buy

13. Repair things that are not working

14. Take new challenges at work

15. Say: “I love you” to your partner every day

16. Give more hugs to family and friends

17. Find something to be grateful for every day

18. Challenge fear at least once a week

19. Say: “Today is going to be a fantastic day” every morning when you get up

20. Focus more on positive things

21. Meditate every day

What do you think New Year’s resolution #22 should be?

The Complete Hierarchy of Habits

Habits based on Maslow and Frankl

Hierarchy of Habits © Erik Back 2011

Yesterday I searched for some sort of checklist of habits. I found a couple of good lists and I gave you some links to these lists. While I studied these lists I started to categorise the habits and I scribbled and circled the categories and habits on a sheet of blank paper. After I while I started to notice a similarity to Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs that I remember so well from marketing in business school.

I rediscovered Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and I started to plot in the different habits and they all make perfect sense. I added the extra dimension of Victor Frankl – transcendence and ended up with a complete model for the habits that form your life. I will call it The Hierarchy of Habits.

This model only represents the categories and grouping of habits and you can use it to get a sense of perspective before starting working on your habits. About a week ago I wrote a bit about the Shaolin monks; in that post the message was that you have to master the basics to become a master. These wise words apply well in the hierarchy of habits, because you have to master and optimise the basic habits that will form your foundation.

That means that you should practice your habits at ground level before proceeding to the next level. Before you even consider start working on your self-esteem you have to master the first three levels. You have to master the physiological habits before anything else. This means that all your focus should be on getting good sleeping habits; getting exercise; have a good diet and make sure that your digestion works well. These are the absolute basics and you will not succeed in the following levels if you do not master the basics.

Take a closer look at the hierarchy of habits by clicking it to enlarge the image. Spend some time thinking about every item in the model and feel free to comment below. In my coming posts about habits I will refer to this model and develop it further.

Defeat Fear With Cans!

Stickman Motivator finds success

I can I will I can I will © Erik Back 2011

I found another great quote; I do not know the origins of the quote but it is good:

“Fear is a habit; so is self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness and resignation. You can eliminate all of these negative habits with two simple resolves: I can!! I will!!”

To have success in life you have to do what other people either fear to do or do not want to do. Do not fear doing things because the things you fear will bring success; do not be afraid of success.

One thing I have learned is: Never give up! Things can be hard to do and sometimes they seem hopeless. Sometimes the whole world seems to think that what you are doing is a bad idea. But very often it is because they fear doing what you are doing. People want security and that is why they do what they always do. They stick to habits they know will work. But if you want to fulfil your dreams you have to get out of your comfort zone and challenge your fears.

I agree with the quote above. Fear is a bad habit. I know that fear is there to protect us but you really have to do some fearful things to get on in life or you risk getting more and more fear. If you focus on fear you will get fear. My advice is to do what you do not like to do because the reward will be ten times worth it.

I do not like to jump into a cold lake with thin ice floes, but I do it anyway because the feeling I get afterward is sensational. I feel like a completely new person full of energy and the blood is rushing and the adrenaline makes me feel high.

I want to get the reward; I want the great feeling I get afterwards. If you want something you can defeat the fear of doing by saying I will do it! I can do it!

I always chant a mantra inside myself when I have to challenge my fears; I keep repeating I can, I will, I can, I will etc.

Try it and you will be very well rewarded.