How to Improve Self-Confidence: Exercise

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Doing sports and exercise indirectly improves your self-confidence because being physical active has a wide range of advantages: It keeps you both mental and physical fit; it improves your blood flow; it is energising and de-stressing at the same time; it improves your general fitness level no matter how good you are at it; it helps you to understand yourself and your body; it helps you develop professional skills; it improves your breathing, endurance and strength; It builds lean muscles that will give you a better posture.

Common mental training for athletes is imagery; they visualise themselves performing and that will help them reaching their goals and feel more self-confident. Sports are a great way to set realistic goals and reaching them. By reaching physical goals you will get the feeling of achievement and you will prove to yourself that you have the skills and ability to perform. That will help to improve your self-confidence in your everyday or professional life.

In my last post I explained how adrenaline is produced from fear; you can also produce adrenaline and endorphins by exercising. A typical side effect from doing physical exercise is that you will become more energetic and happy. Your general mood will be better and you will tend to be more positive and keep a good sense of perspective. If I feel down I do not want to exercise but I will do it anyway, because I know it will make me feel better.

The reason for the feeling of happiness is that the brain produces endorphins that have an effect like morphine. The endorphins will reduce pain and generate happiness.

When you feel down or depressed you also feel unable to perform; you would tend to feel inadequate and feel lack of self-confidence. But by doing exercise you will be able to perform in way that makes you happy. Being happy makes you see things from the bright site and that will improve self-confidence.

 

A Setback Is an Opportunity for Comeback

Never give up!

It is an undisputable fact that you will experience adversity in life. You cannot have success all the time, but you can feel overall successful. Sometimes things take another turn than you expected and you will have to redefine your world and criteria of success.

I recently experienced a big setback where two of my central cooperative agreements were changed; actually one of them was denounced; I received a notice of termination yesterday. The consequences are that my basic income next year will be halved.

What would you do in such a situation? I was sad and went home moping and complained my misfortune to my girlfriend. After a good hour of self-pity I went swimming. When feeling down exercise is a good cure that helps clearing the mind. I beat my own record in butterfly and swam 125 meters in a row. When I came back home I was able to think clear again and I sat down to regain the perspective and figure out what to do.

The important thing is to keep going and not give up. The rules of the game have changed and if I want to win that game I have to learn the new rules and conditions and see the opportunities they present. I am not going to quit now; I am determined to turn this to my advantage!

This morning it turns out that there is a possibility for making a new and different kind of cooperation that might be good in the long term. I have already made the first moves to a favourable agreement. The world does not stop and life goes on; so I will find a positive focus and ask myself what my options are and start exploring the new path that suddenly revealed itself to me.

How to Be Successful: Willpower

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My last post covered persistence and being persistent takes a good deal of willpower. Sometimes you have to do things you do not want to do in order to reach a long-term goal. E.g. read a certain book to get that university degree. You can postpone the reading again and again, but you now that you have to read it eventually. This is where you need willpower and just do what needs to be done without getting distracted.

Willpower is about focus; if you get distracted you need to exercise willpower to stay on the track. E.g. if you want to fit your bikini next summer then do not get distracted by that chocolate bar. Bring focus back on your long-term goal.

Worrying is one of the worst distractions you can have. E.g. you are reading a book and while reading your mind is constantly thinking about the birthday present you forgot to buy or if you forgot to turn of the oven or if you have enough money etc. It is impossible to focus on what you are doing if you worry. You have to be present here and now; nothing else is more important than what you are doing now.

There are many ways to practice being present and shut out distractions; you can meditate; you can do physical exercising; you can read literature like Eckhart Tolle’s “The Power of Now” or you can study a raisin. Just practice your willpower and ability to focus every day.

3 tips to refocus and exercise willpower:

  1. Write your distractions down. If your are working on something and distracting thoughts are popping up, then write them down on a piece of paper and deal with them later.
  2. Make a deal with your distraction. E.g. a friend calls you to chat while you are studying, tell her that you are studying but that you will call back in an hour.
  3. Eat. Make sure that your blood sugar level is high or you will loose concentration.

Are You Ready For Success?

To get something you need to know what you really want. If you go to a store you do not buy random items, you go to the store because you have a need for a specific item. You pick up the item and go to the counter because you have to pay for that item. Logically you need money to pay and if you do not have money then you cannot buy the item. Your money is part of your foundation; it is your economical foundation.

Thus, to get something; to reach a goal, there are certain parts of your personal foundation that need to be stable first. There are different parts in you foundation that you constantly need to work on. If your overall foundation is unstable then you risk that the foundation will crack and you will not reach your goals. Imagine that you need to buy something in a store and you have to walk five kilometres to get there; if your legs are too weak they cannot carry you and you will not be able to get to the store.

These examples are simple but the same goes for everything you want in life. First of all you have to fortify yourself in both body and mind. Then you have to figure out what you really want in life and where to get it. Split your wants into small easy goals and reach them one by one while you constantly work on fortifying yourself.

To fortify yourself you have to exercise to get stronger; you have to think about nutrition to rebuild you body; you need proper rest to be focused. These are the basics of you personal core foundation. Take a test to see if your mental foundation is stable and see what you can do to get it stronger.

How To Exercise

If you want to keep your body tuned to overcome the daily challenges successfully, then make your exercise schedule comply with the rules of thumb I have set up below. Keep in mind that vacuuming, taking the stairs or working is not exercise. I agree that doing your daily activities is much better than sitting in your armchair doing nothing, but it is just not enough if you want a body for success.

If you want to stay in shape and be vital then you need to exercise all your life; make exercise part of your lifestyle. You need to exercise all aspects of your body.

  1. Exercise 3-4 times a week
  2. Vary your training
  3. Focus each training pass on cardio workout, strength training or stretching.
  4. Do specialised training (e.g. swimming technique or rowing or martial arts) Specialised training will help you setting and reaching goals.
  5. Meditate
  6. Be consistent – attend training even if you do not feel up to it. Usually you will feel better during or after training.
  7. Read and philosophise to exercise your brain.
  8. Have fun exercising (e.g. play games)

I attend swimming twice a week and go to the fitness centre as often as possible and I run 7 km once a week. I can recommend the fitness centre because it offers different work out classes that makes it easy to vary training.

If you are thinking: “I do not have time for all that” or “I am to tired to do all that exercise” – then it is time for you to get started because you will realise that you will get the time and energy to do it. You will feel more energetic and efficient in your daily routines.

Exercise prevents heart disorders, stress, workplace injuries and mental disorders.

JUST DO IT!