How to trust

Trust is something you choose to do; it is not a feeling. You choose to trust in order to survive and if you are lacking trust your life will be full of fear and anxiety. Trust involves the willingness to let go of control and expect something good in return.

E.g. if you need to go to a destination – say Tokyo – then you will go to the airport and look for a sign that says Tokyo. The sign will inform you that this plane will take you to Tokyo if you go to “Gate 2”. At the gate you will be met by a stewardess who ensures you this plane will fly to Tokyo. You choose to board the plane and rest by the thought that you will soon land in Tokyo. But how will you actually know? What if the pilot decides to fly to Greenland instead? There is no way that you can know that for sure. The only thing you can do is to trust that everybody involved have the best intentions to bring you safely to Tokyo.

Trust means to leave control to others and expect something good in return.

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How to make success – it is a construction

Where does success come from?

Success is not something other people can bring upon you, neither can they make you unsuccessful. Success is not externally imposed. It’s something that comes from within yourself and success depends on the way you perceive the world and its reality.

Success is a construction.

Everything in the universe is connected in some way. With that in mind it must be possible to influence every aspect of the universe however small the impact may be. Before this article becomes too abstract and philosophical I will show this by an example:

Do you know the feeling of entering a room and the people in that room somehow make you feel uncomfortable? Later you find out that these people just ended a big row. There is a certain feeling in the air when you experience this.

You have probably also experienced the feeling of meeting someone special that you feel connected to from the very first?

These phenomenons can be explained by our ability to pick up vibrations in our surroundings that can help us act. We can use this ability to become more successful. Instead of letting the surrounding environment affect us, we can choose how we interpret incidents in our environment.