How Your Thoughts Become Your Destiny

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Browsing the Internet for quotes I found this one:

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become character. Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

I am not sure who the original source is but after a quick search I found that a Finnish opera singer, Tom Krause, should be the source. Actually the source is not important; the quote is good anyway.

The quote stresses how thoughts become your destiny following a pattern that makes your thought become your reality.

Thoughts – words – actions – habits – character – destiny

Let us say that you have a negative thought… but where does that thought come from? Did you wake up this morning saying: “Today I will have only negative thoughts!” No, I do not think so. The thought is always induced by something; maybe it was induced by some experience or event. This means we need something prior to thought in the pattern from the quote – like ‘event’?

Yes, event makes sense, but it will not fit the quote because you cannot watch your events; they would be out of your control. But what is not out of your control is your perception of events. You can choose how you will perceive an event or experience. You have the power to choose to see life from a positive angle rather than a negative. I think that is what the quote is trying to tell us.

If you choose to perceive events from a negative focus you will convey the experience in negative words and they will induce some kind of negative action. If you keep doing this then your negative attitude will become a habit. From one of my other posts you know that habits are the building blocks of your life and if you choose to build your personality from negative building blocks then your life and destiny is going to be a negative experience.

Do you want that? No, you do not – that is not the nature of man. We want security and happiness and you can get that if you start watching your thoughts.


  1. Andrew Jones says:

    Thank you for a great topic.
    I dont think we can ever control our destiny for real because of the below scenario : say we have positive thoughts , dont smoke and seem to be controlling our destiny in everyway, then one day you get run over by a car and paralyzed just before playing the FA cup final at wembley. the accident was out of your control and stopped you from forefilling your life dream, and this had nothing to do with your positive thoughts and life style.

    • Thank you Andrew,
      Positive thoughts cannot guarantee that nothing bad will ever happen to you, but it will help you on a good path of life and it will help you get the most of any situation – even the bad ones.

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